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Once she suspects that you maybe do have other girls in your life besides
her, you have a choice; to be honest about your lifestyle, or to hide it. These
are two completely different styles. I prefer being honest, but I ve also ex-
perimented with being dishonest which is actually more work.
You will lose some girls until you learn how to play it right. It takes some
time. Don t let it make you frustrated, because time is necessary to learn
how to control a harem. If you choose to hide it, then that game is really
easy; deny everything and keep your place clean. They have the instinct of
marking their territory, by leaving their hair, panties, earrings, and other
things, to signify that you are taken. Again, they act according to animal
instincts. So always try to keep your place clean, otherwise you are in deep
trouble when one of them finds earrings or other things in your bed that
don t belong to her.
If you choose the other path, and admit openly that you have been sleeping
with other girls, then you must be aware that lot of girls will not accept it.
But at least you won t have to keep cleaning your place all the time! They
will not accept it, if they think you are not worth it. But if you give them the
best sex on the planet, and they are sure they cannot find better, and they
love you, of course they will choose to stay with you no matter what. If you
go for it, you must be really strong and your attitude must be that you are
calling the shots.
If you do it strongly, they will accept it, because they know that s the way
you are, and they cannot change you. So they are forced to accept it. If you
hesitate, or you are insecure, no way will it work.
This way is really good if you have a good lifestyle. A lifestyle that they want
to be part of. An excellent lifestyle is the foundation for long-term, crazy
success in this game.
I found for myself that being honest about my life and my decisions works
the best.
Being Honest
know it s hard to say what you really think. This is because everything we
Isay first goes through our logical filter which screens out what is smart to
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say, or not smart to say.
Usually that filter develops in puberty and is created by societal pressure.
You must learn to think for yourself and override this filter. If you observe
confident people, you will notice that they are very direct and demanding,
which radiates power to others. They think for themselves and ask for ex-
actly what they want. You need to do the same; especially with women.
When it comes to girls, it s much better to honestly say what you think and
intend rather than play games and send mixed signals. Lying develops mis-
trust and drama and usually ends badly.
Once there s mistrust, girls are always trying to figure out whether you are
lying to them. It s normal for them to ask you where you ve been and con-
stantly check for proof. Like a police detective, her mind will work and inves-
tigate all possible scenarios. She will ask why you stayed longer at the office,
why you called your female colleague, why you look tired. They analyze your
answers, search your pockets and read messages in your mobile phone when
you re are not around. It is difficult to hide anything from them. So you can
go one of two ways: scramble to come up with explanations for every situa-
tion or just be honest.
Both ways work but lying only works until you get caught. Unless you are
a very imaginative and lucky guy, the honest way is easier and is not likely
to hurt anyone. When you are promising monogamy but not practicing it,
things get very difficult once you are caught with another woman. It won t
go away without big drama and usually will finish the relationship. If you
promise she s your only one and then begin acting suspiciously, she will look
for proof of your disloyalty, making your life hell. And when she gets some,
you are in trouble.
Just be honest. Do not make her believe that she is the only one if she is not.
Tell her that you are seeing other girls if she asks. You will be surprised by
how she reacts. If she likes being with you and you haven t falsely led her to
believe differently, she will rarely cut off the relationship because her logical
brain can t find a reason to leave you or make too much drama because she
still wants to spend time with you and you haven t done anything deceitful.
You are simply a high status male who enjoys the company of women -- her
being one of them in her own special way -- and you make no apologies for
it. She will respect you for this. And you can feel better for not living a dis-
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honest life.
Relationship Management Frames
o matter how many girls you have (even if you only have one), they must
Nalways know they are replaceable. That helps minimize the power that
society normally gives them in relationships and keeps the frame going that
YOU are the prize. But the attitude alone that they are replaceable is not
enough, because if they think that you are using them just for sex, they will
disappear from your life.
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